Prep the kale: Strip the leaves from the stems. Stack the leaves, roll them up, and slice into thin ribbons.
Add to a large bowl, sprinkle with a pinch of salt, and drizzle with a teaspoon of olive oil. Massage for 1–2 minutes until the leaves darken and soften.
Cook the carrots: Steam or roast the chopped carrots until fork-tender. Let them cool slightly so they don’t melt the dressing.
Blend the dressing: In a blender, combine the cooked carrots, ginger, garlic, rice vinegar, lemon juice, soy sauce, honey, and sesame oil.
Blend until smooth. With the motor running, add neutral oil. Thin with water until you get a pourable, creamy consistency.
Taste and adjust acid, salt, or sweetness.
Build the salad base: Add the shredded cabbage, carrot ribbons, and cucumber to the massaged kale. Toss gently.
Dress it: Pour about half the dressing over the salad and toss. Add more dressing to coat, saving a little for serving.
Add toppings: Gently fold in the avocado, then scatter almonds and sesame seeds over the top.
Finish and serve: Taste and add a squeeze of lemon or a pinch of salt if needed.
Serve right away, or let it rest for 10 minutes to meld the flavors.